
One's choice of a mate in marriage or in a key relationship would do more to determine their overall success and happiness than perhaps any other factor. And we should not forget relationships are one of the important avenues of channeling one to a destined position. You probably know lots of people who have worked hard for years to achieve material success in the work world, and it all fall to pieces when the critical relationships with their spouses and children disintegrate for lack of time and attention. One way for you to find your ideal mate is the same way that you achieve any worthwhile goal in life. You sit down with a pad of paper and write a vivid description of the perfect person for you. As you engage in this exercise, imagine you are putting in a request and the perfect person is going to be delivered back to you exactly by virtue of your description. Take time to write out every detail. Be sure to describe the ideal person's appearance, height, level of physical fitness and religious denomination. Describe the person's temperament, personality, sense of humor, education, intelligence and attitude. Be as precise as you can with regard to the person's values, beliefs, philosophies and opinions about the important things in life.
The more detailed your description, the more likely you will be to find the perfect person for you. Read and re-read this description everyday. Add new details and characteristics to the descriptions as you think of them. Modify and adjust the existing description so that it is more and more accurate and precise. Each time you review the description of your ideal person, you programme this deeper and deeper into your subconscious mind. When you imagine how happy you will feel when you are in a relationship with the perfect person for you, this emotional component activates your subconscious mind and triggers the Law of Attraction which states, “you are a living magnet, and you inevitably attract into your life the people, circumstance, ideal and resources in harmony with your dominant thoughts”. The Bible puts it this way, “As he thinks in his heart, so is he” (proverbs 23:7a). In no time at all, you will draw that person into your life. May the Lord empower you to fulfill your aspirations in life.
